hiya everyone just a quick message to say why i have decided to write.
i have 2 boys one aged 13 and the other just 10. but my eldest son has now been excluded from school for his own safety as he is constantly attacked at school on a daily basis. The first problem is that he has Asperges syndrome, and so he obviously acts differently and this has casued other kids to constantly attack him. and also being rather intelligent makes him a target as well. i knew he would struggle with the secondary school, but this is just beyond a joke a 2 year campaign and my son although out of danger, is now driving me mad at home lol, and i am also stuyding a full time uni course so i am teaching him and also studying myself.
just before the summer holidays, two boys aged 16 and 17 jumped the school fence and attacked him in the school playground. so he was off the last 2wks of school and also the first two week after the hols returned in september. the school convinced us that all had been resolved. so he returned to school on a friday and by the tuesday had been attacked 2 times, and then constantly until just 10 days ago when i eventually said enough is enough either these boys are taken out of school or i will take my son.
and guess what i was told its best for my son to be taught at home now, as they can not re-assure me that he will be safe. so 2 weeks on and i am still waiting for the work that school has to provide and also a timetable for him to go to school 2 mornings a week to get his work marked.
so as usual the bullying violent little animals get to carry on their campaign to the other younger kids. and whats worse is that although my son is 13 hes is 5ft 11ins the school seems to think ok so he should be able to stand up for himself.
i dont want to swear so i wont, i did not send my son to school to fight, thats what his taekwondo classes are for, why should he be put in that situation where he has to protect himself everyday, that is not what should be happening at school. his work is suffering too, as he has missed so many lessons now.
my hubby is real angry as so far he has missed the meetings as he is working at heathrow and cant get the time off. he is just shocked at the fact that is going on, and no one has taken it seriously until my son lost it and threatened a teacher through frustation, as he was telling the teacher that these boys are attacking me and he was told to go away, they were busy, so he went for the teacher for not helping.
so nwo 2 years of absolute hell have finally caught up with them and they are now having to answer questions, as this is not the end as i know my hubby wants to take it further.
but we hope that he may be moved to another shcool, which is more specialised with special needs kids.
well thats is for me now. if anyone can offer some help in teaching at home please let me know.